I can’t believe the other day I hit my 5-MONTH mark! Why is
time so distorted out here? The days feel like weeks, and weeks pass right
before my eyes. Soon I will have finished a third of my mission! It's just
crazy to think that I will be coming home right around this time next year!
Enough of the trunkiness ... haha!
What a great week! But yes, it's soooo humid here! We sit in
metros stuffed with people and there's just sweat dripping down my shins. More
often than not, I feel claustrophic, like I'm swimming in warm water, haha! It’s
THAT sticky here. All part of the work, eh?
I tried coconut at one of our meals with the Stagno family.
The father cracked it open with a screwdriver right there in front of us. I was
laughing just watching his technique and he was so shocked that I had never
tried it before. So naturally, they all watched me, like an animal in a zoo
exhibit, as I chowed down the coconut. I wasn't much of a fan, but hey, I tried
it! Luckily I won't be stranded on any islands with that as my only source of
food.
Remember the young beautiful Muslim African woman (Astou) I
was telling you about last week? We had a wonderful soiree familiale (Family Home
Evening) with her and her sweet 7-year-old boy named Miguel at a member's home
last week. We just talked about Jesus Christ and testified about how we know
that God has a plan for us and that we are on the earth for a reason. That
reason is that one day we will be able to return to live with God, Christ, and
our families! She accidentally overslept and missed church on Sunday, but came
to the baptism of our Bishop's 8-year old son after church to see how it went. During
the baptism, I kept a silent prayer in my heart that she would be able to feel
the spirit. Soeur Francis was playing piano, and I was leading the music as we
sang, so we weren't able to sit next to her and answer any questions she might
have had during the service. Afterwards, I asked her what she thought of the
baptism and she said, "It was beautiful. When I saw that little boy go
under the water and come back up again, I had goose bumps and felt a good
burning in my heart!" I was then able to tell her that those feelings were
the Spirit! She grew emotional as she listened to the testimony of our Bishop
about overcoming trials with the help of our Savior.
What a neat experience! I know attending baptisms can be
such a sacred experience for those who are searching to know the truth or come
to better know Christ! The other day we challenged her to follow the example of
Jesus Christ and be baptized and she said YES!!! We are thinking of setting a
date for the beginning of August. Please keep AsTou in your prayers; that she
will continue to progress.
Last night I had a really cool dream. I was on my mission
here in France, and my entire family had come to visit the area I was serving
in (in real life that is not allowed, haha). They all showed up for church on
Sunday, and made efforts to talk with the members and thank them for their
kindness towards me while I have been serving here. It was funny, because my
sister, Lydia, walked up to a man with a dictionary in hand and said,
"Bonjour Monsieur", and then froze … not knowing how to complete the
rest of the sentence she wanted to say. She just laughed and smiled and ran
off. I was busy working with the members, fixing appointments for the upcoming
week and was running around trying to keep track of our amis and talking to
them by answering their questions. My father went out of his way to shake the
bishop's hand and asked him if there was anything he could help with. My mother
was helping the young mothers with their children who were throwing tantrums. My
family later accompanied me to all of the lessons that Soeur Francis and I
taught, and testified in the most choppy French I have EVER heard ... but they
testified with POWER. The spirit was so strong, and those we were teaching had
a desire to learn more and find out for THEMSELVES if the things they were
saying were true.
I know to most, this was just a silly dream, but to me it
was a testimony to me that my family really is doing all they can to support me
and help me with this work. They are striving to be the best examples they can
be to my pen pal, Camille, while she spends these last couple weeks with them
in the USA. They are also a part of all that I do, and I can feel their prayers
when I need them most. I am so grateful for them and everything they do for me.
Chapter 9: (just kidding). Sorry this is so long! This past
week, our mission leaders invited us, within our companionships, to "pray
and fix goals that will force you to rely on the Lord and His grace." We
make daily goals regarding the number of people we will teach, but usually
they're safe … goals we know we can attain if we stick to the schedule we
planned the night before.
Thursday night, we had plans to eat at a member's home with
one of our amis, but last minute, it ended up being moved to Friday night. We
were left without a plan, and decided we needed to FIND. We knew we only had a
chunk of about 45 minutes to an hour before we left our apartment. So with this
challenge in mind, we prayed that we would be able to give out two copies of
the Book of Mormon and fix three appointments with people for next week, to
come back and teach them when they had more time. We prayed that we would be
able to accomplish this goal, and told Heavenly Father that we were going to do
all WE could do, by talking to everyone we saw, and told Heavenly Father that
we needed His help in order to reach this goal.
So, we set off for a nearby park. It's a huge, super-green
and beautiful park with a lake right in the middle of it (Parc Duheron). We
talked to every person that passed us on the street during the 20 minute walk
there ... nothing … not interested, didn't have time, Atheist, strong
practicing Islam ... you name it. We entered the park and came to a fork in the
path. We stopped and said another prayer, and asked Heavenly Father to help us
know which way to go. Afterwards, Soeur Francis and I looked at one another,
nodded our heads and continued walking straight. Three young women in their 20’s
were approaching us, so Soeur Francis stopped them, and introduced herself. She
then explained how Christ had changed her life and asked them if they happened
to believe in Christ as well. All at once the women said with tons of
excitement, "YES!" I was taken back a bit, but even MORE so when the
African woman in the middle said, "Do you have a minute? If you want, we
can all go sit at that picnic table over there and discuss more about your
message." Soeur Francis and I looked at each other in shock with nothing
but smiles on our faces and said, "Of course!"
Their names were Lea, Patricia and Clarisse. They were all
good friends and were students at a nearby university. Lea told us that she had
only seen Americans in movies and asked if it was okay to get a picture with
us! Haha, we then began to talk about Jesus Christ, and we ended up teaching
them the first lesson about the Restoration of the Gospel through Joseph Smith!
It was hilarious because Lea was so fascinated by us that she just took out her
camera and was videotaping us the whole time we were teaching and have a
discussion. They asked tons of questions and we gave them the two copies of the
Book of Mormon that we had brought with us and set appointments with all three of
them for the following week! We all clicked so well and were laughing together
by the end of the night. They left, and the sun began to set on the beautiful
lake. Soeur Francis and I knelt down, offering a prayer of gratitude to the
Lord and for His grace; for blessing us with that tender mercy of meeting our
specific goals we had fixed. I know the Lord answers our prayers, and that we
will receive help if we pray sincerely and specifically!
Soeur Francis and I made the goal to focus on one
Christ-like attribute a week. Last week we studied and prayed for Charity. It
is incredible to see how the Lord not only blesses us with that gift of loving
those around us, but also gives us opportunities to demonstrate our charity.
The other night, Soeur Francis and I were riding home on the metro after a long
day, when a middle-aged man sitting across from us stared at our name tags and
gave me a dirty look. He then started openly ripping on us as two Christian-American
young women, saying we were lost and in the wrong place. He turned to a girl
who he didn’t even know next to him and kept saying the rudest things right in
front of us!! He started to raise his voice and then went on to say that he was
Buddhist and that there was no place for us here. I don't think my companion
understood most of what he was saying, but my blood was boiling. The spirit had
left and I felt defenseless. I was trying to make the decision whether to open
my mouth and say something or let it go. Then the word, "charity"
flooded into my mind and peace entered my heart. The girl next to him, who was
about our age, turned and told him that he needed to be respectful. It was so
cool! He then got off a few stops later, turned back at us and sarcastically
said, "bonne soiree!" or “good night!” I smiled at him and returned
the salutation. It was so neat how my troubled and defensive heart was calmed
in a situation when I didn't know what to do! I know that man is a child of God,
and I am so grateful for the young French girl, Justine, who stood up for us!
Like it says in the scriptures, "without charity, we are nothing." I've
realized that it is a commandment to pray for charity all the time!
I am so grateful for this opportunity to serve. There are so
many stories and experiences I wish I could share. I know I am where I am
supposed to be and I am so grateful for the many people I meet every day who
make me want to be better. The ward of Villeneuve D'Ascq is incredible!!! Do
all you can to open your homes to the missionaries … it truly does make a
difference!
To those of you preparing to serve, I recommend reading the
talk "The Fourth Missionary" by Lawrence E. Corbridge. It has changed
my entire perspective and motivates me to do all I can to better these people's
lives and bring them to Christ!
You are all in my prayers! If you have any specific
questions, shoot me an email! Until next week! I love you all! Take care and
find ways to have charity!
Love,
Soeur Madeline Vance
